Monday 9 July 2018

What is required to become and remain a disciple?


Messages for July 2018: Our Month of Excellence
Message for Sunday 8th July, 2018
Theme: Understanding the Benefits of Discipleship
Topic: What is required to become and remain a disciple?
Introduction: Every business people go into requires skill acquisition which is done through teaching and observation of the teacher by the protégé. At the beginning of the relationship between the disciple and the discipler, an agreement is usually arrived at before the training commences.
In the case of anyone who wants to become a disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ, an open invitation has been made to all converts with the terms expressly stated by the Lord Jesus Christ himself.
Who can become a disciple?
Discipleship in our context is open to only those who have become converts of the Lord Jesus Christ through faith and expressed by their declaration of the Lordship of Jesus Christ and baptism by immersion in water.  In Jn.8:29, Jesus preached in a certain place to some Jews and many of them believed on him to the point that they requested to see him. It was at this point Jesus Christ brought out clearly the distinction between a convert and a disciple. He said to those Jews who had believed in him that if they continued in his word then would they be his disciples indeed and that the benefit was that they would get to know the truth that would make them free.
Thus the commencement stage of discipleship is to first become converted to Christ from the world. The best description of one who answers an altar call when invited to give their lives to Christ, is a convert. It is continuity in the faith through reading, meditating on and doing the word of God that causes one to grow into discipleship.
The cost of discipleship: The Lord without hiding it from all declared that discipleship is a costly adventure that would demand the willingness of the would-be disciple to pay the price. In several places in the gospel, He lets us know what these demands are. To make it easy for us to understand, we shall make a list of it as follows:
1.     Self-denial: To deny self simply means to go to the Cross and allow the Lord to work in you to slay your ego or selfishness. Until this is done, whatever else you attempt to do in discipleship would be tantamount to a faulty foundation. Sincerely, the foundation for effective discipleship is self-denial for the love of God. To deny yourself simply means to consciously make choices that would honor God’s truth taking the throne of your life even when it conflicts with your desires even the very deep desires of your heart. see Lk.9:23-24
§  Self-denial will make you put God’s interest above your personal interest. Jn.12:24-26 and 2Cor.12:15
§  Self-denial will make you love the Lord and His interest more than your parents or any other person. You get to know this when the interest of your parents conflicts with the interest of God. Mt.10:34-37
§  Self-denial will make you willing to lay down your life for the cause of the gospel. Jn.10:17-18 and 2Tim.4:6-8.
§  Self-denial will make you willing and obedient to the word of God at all times. See Acts 13:1-4 and Isa.1:19.
2.     Take up your Cross daily: This means that on a daily basis, you need to seek the Lord to know His mind for you for that day and fall in line with it. Sometimes it may not be convenient for you to do but because you have committed to discipleship, you will give it what it takes to do what is demanded even when it is not convenient. The Cross of every disciple includes our daily commitment to the Lord in prayer and reading, meditating on and doing the word. As a matter of fact doing the word is not an optional Cross for every believer to carry daily; it is mandatory. See Jas.1:21-25; Mt.7:24-27 and Mk.8:34.
3.     Follow the Lord:  To follow means exactly that; we are to follow the Lord; not to lead Him; not even in the way we pray. We are told to learn to be led by the Spirit. Anyone who is led by the Spirit proves that they are spiritually mature. This will demand dedication from you because no one can truly do this except they are really dedicated to the Lord. When we follow the Lord, He makes the decision and we carry our His instructions. See Rm.8:14, 16 and Jn.12:24-26.
We shall draw the curtain here today. As we saw above, we cannot begin this great journey of discipleship unless we first become converts. To become a convert starts with first making Jesus Christ the Lord of your life. If you are yet to do this and you so desire, you can do so right away by saying the following prayer out loud in faith and you will be born again:

Heavenly Father,
Have mercy on me a sinner. Today, I believe that Jesus died for me and you raised Him from the dead for my Justification. I therefore declare that Jesus Christ is my Saviour and Lord and from today, I renounce the fatherhood of Satan and embrace Jesus Christ as my Saviour and Lord. Thank you for this father in Jesus’ name! Amen.
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what discipleship is and who can be called one


Messages for July 2018: Our Month of Excellence
Message for Sunday 1st July, 2018
Theme: Understanding the Benefits of Discipleship
Topic: what discipleship is and who can be called one
Introduction: Every day, He arose a great while before day light and went on to a nearby park to spend some time alone with God. Anyone who observed him would be impressed by His consistency. He never failed to keep this date with His invisible friend who He referred to as His Father. This is the secret of the powerful ministry of the Lord Jesus Christ and the unusual wisdom and mastery He displayed as a leader. He stayed in intimate relationship with the Holy Spirit and never did nor say anything except what the father modeled to Him and told Him to say. This month, in our theme, we are going to be looking at the advantages of living this way and we encourage everyone to enlist in this great boat called discipleship.
What is discipleship? Discipleship is -
1.     The state if being a disciple – Jn.8:31
2.     This is the state of being a follower of the doctrines and precepts of another. In our case; it is the follower of the doctrines and lifestyle of the Lord Jesus Christ. Jn.8:31
3.     A disciple bears fruit for God through Jesus Christ. The fruit is called the fruit of the spirit. When they do, the lost is attracted to them to become saved. See Jn.15:1-5, 8 and Mt.5:14-16
Who can be called a disciple of Jesus Christ?
1.     One who has met the demand of Jesus Christ in Lk.9:23 – this demand was to deny himself and take up his Cross daily and follow the Lord. To deny self is to refuse to please one’s self when pleasing yourself will displease the Lord. Instead, you please the Lord. For instance, a rich man came to Jesus to be saved and the Lord told him to go sell all he had and give to the poor and come and follow him. The man went away sorrowful and did not receive the Lord as at then. No account of him was seen after that. This goes to show that converts are expected to grow to become disciples. Mk.10:17-22 
2.     One who follows Jesus Christ so that he or she can become a fisher of men. A fisher of men is someone who wins souls to Christ. This is one of the wisest thing anyone can do for themselves because the bible tells us that a soul winner is wise. See Prov.11:30; Dan.12:3 and Mt.4:19
3.     One who bears the fruit of the Spirit. This is the fruit that the Lord said we shall be identified by to prove that we are His own. The book of Gal.5:21-22 lists them for us. Also we can see more on this in Mt.7:15-20.
4.     One who has embraced self-denial so that he or she can follow the Lord. Apostle Paul exemplifies this lifestyle to us when he said in Philippians 3:7-9 that he has counted all things dung for the excellency of Christ Jesus our Lord so that he could gain Christ. This is the language of a true disciple and he did his best to live up to it to the point that he asked the Church to follow him as he follows Christ. See Philippians 3:17-20.
More would be said on this by God’s grace in subsequent services. Meanwhile, this message is a message to believers who want to walk more closely with God. For all men, this is the desire of God for mankind. If you desire this, the first step is that you must belong to God’s family through the new birth experience. If you want to take advantage of this opportunity to belong to God’s family, you can do so right away by saying the following prayer out loud in faith and you will be saved:
Heavenly Father,
Have mercy on me a sinner. Today, I believe that Jesus died for me and you raised Him from the dead for my Justification. I therefore declare that Jesus Christ is my Saviour and Lord and from today, I renounce the fatherhood of Satan and embrace Jesus Christ as my Saviour and Lord. Thank you for this father in Jesus’ name! Amen.
Congratulations! For more information and resources that would help you grow in this new life, please visit our website at www.kingdomheirsministries.org and our blogs at www.flourishinggirl.blogspot.com and follow us on twitter at alero_nanna and on face book on www.facebook.com/flourishinggirl www.facebook.com/khmii2015; www.facebook.com/thewellbeingcenter. Or www.facebook.com/kingdomjointheirsfamily email:  jointheirsfamily@gmail.com.

Welcome to the month of July 2018: Our Month of Excellence


Welcome to the month of July 2018: Our Month of Excellence
Forasmuch as an excellent spirit, and knowledge, and understanding, interpreting of dreams, and shewing of hard sentences, and dissolving of doubts, were found in the same Daniel, whom the king named Belteshazzar: now let Daniel be called, and he will shew the interpretation. Dan.5:12
As we enter into the second half of the year, many would currently be taking inventory of this year from the beginning to the end of its first half today. Some would be very satisfied with their reports and others would not be depending on their results and attitudes. However, there is one truth we must all bear in mind and that is that we did not begin this year and get to this point of the year by our own power or ability. We all got here by the grace of God; thus whether we feel we have succeeded or failed, we must always remember the God factor and remember that the best attitude we can have at a time like this is one of gratitude.
So far in life I have learnt to be thankful for what God has given to me rather than being disturbed about what I think I should have but don’t because I learnt from God’s word that godliness with contentment is great gain. Further, I have also come to an awareness that true excellence is impossible without intimacy with the Holy Spirit. He is the Spirit of excellence and therefore to demonstrate true excellence is impossible without being associated with Him. From our text above, we see the example of Daniel who was acclaimed by royalty in Babylon in his lifetime as being one with an excellent spirit because according to them, the spirit of the Holy God with him.
Another person who demonstrated excellence in the word of God was Joseph. Concerning him, this is what Pharaoh had to say of him:
“… can we find such a one as this, a man in whom is the Spirit of God?
… in as much as God has shown you all this, there is no one as discerning and wise as you. You shall be over my house and all my people shall be ruled according to your word; only with regard to the throne will I be greater than you.” Gen.41:38-41 nkjv
Also, about the Lord Jesus Christ, we read that he increased in wisdom and stature and in favour with God and men when he was still only twelve years old because of the life of intimacy he had with God as was later disclosed to us in his statement in John 5:19-20, 30 etc. that he does nothing except what He sees the father doing and that He says nothing except what the father tells Him to say. We also lean from his daily prayer habit disclosed to us in Mark 1:35 that he did not take His intimate relationship with God lightly. Why was He like this? He knew that He could only stay connected to God by sticking closely to Him. It is only then that the life of God could flow through Him in this wicked world even though He was God’s Son. See Lk.2:52
Everyone who is born of God in this world is faced with the constant challenge of remaining connected to their source of salvation – Jesus Christ. God saw ahead that this would be the case so He promised to and sent us the Holy Spirit to help us on behalf of Christ to stay connected to Him. This is because if we are not so positioned, the wicked will try to wrest our salvation from us through fruitlessness.
To protect us from this adversity, the Lord declared the way to freedom from this world and its ways in John 8:31-32; He said:
“… If you abide in my word, you are my disciples indeed. And you shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.”
Further, in John 15:1-5 He makes us understand that the importance of abiding in him cannot be over flogged because it is only when we abide in Him that we can be fruitful. When we realize this, we are motivated to do everything we have to do to stay connected because indeed, without him we cannot bear any fruit. Meanwhile, it is God’s will for us not only to bear fruit but to bear much fruit. See John 15:8 – He said that when we bear much fruit, it qualifies us as His disciples.
In light of the importance of being a disciple to be able to bear much fruit, we can see that the spirit of excellence would flow freely through a disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ. The people we looked at their examples in the Old Testament both show that they were disciples of some greater ones before them and it helped them become the excellent men they were. Joseph was discipled by his father Jacob. Daniel was an ardent follower of Jeremiah and he was able to leave behind an excellent legacy like the wise men from the east who visited the baby Jesus hundreds of years later.
This month, we shall thus be learning discipleship with the aim of knowing how we can be led by the Holy Spirit and God’s word to see how we can become true Disciples of Christ while still in submission to His true disciples. Theme: understanding the Privileges of being a true disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ.
It is my heart felt prayer that at the end of this month each of us would have learnt how to enlist and walk in this great boat called Discipleship and started living the life of one.
Meanwhile discipleship is only for the believer in Christ; all who are not yet born again cannot enter this boat. Thus if you are reading this blog now and you are not yet born again and you desire to take on the responsibility of becoming a disciple, you can get saved right away by saying the following prayer out loud in faith and you will be saved:
Heavenly Father,
Have mercy on me a sinner. Today, I believe that Jesus died for me and you raised Him from the dead for my Justification. I therefore declare that Jesus Christ is my Saviour and Lord and from today, I renounce the fatherhood of Satan and embrace Jesus Christ as my Saviour and Lord. Thank you for this father in Jesus’ name! Amen.
Congratulations! For more information and resources that would help you grow in this new life, please visit our website at www.kingdomheirsministries.org and our blogs at www.flourishinggirl.blogspot.com and follow us on twitter at alero_nanna and on face book on www.facebook.com/flourishinggirl www.facebook.com/khmii2015; www.facebook.com/thewellbeingcenter. Or www.facebook.com/kingdomjointheirsfamily email:  jointheirsfamily@gmail.com.

Some Reasons why Every Believer should speak/pray in other tongues


Messages for June 2018: Our Month of the Holy Spirit
Message for Sunday 24th June, 2018
Theme: Understanding the Ministry and Gift of the Holy Spirit
Topic: Some Reasons why Every Believer should speak/pray in other tongues
Introduction: So far we have been learning a lot from this great theme of understanding the Ministry and Gift of the Holy Spirit. We have learnt who the Holy Spirit is and why He came. We also saw the gifts and the fruit of the spirit and we emphasized that while some of the gifts could be counterfeited by the enemy to deceive, the fruit of the spirit cannot be counterfeited because it is a bye product of cultivating the nature of God in us. Bearing the fruit of the spirit involves the cooperation of the believer in order to cultivate divine nature which is the real work of the believer cooperating with the word of God and the Holy Spirit in their lives. Today, we shall be looking at the bible to see some reasons why every believer must speak in other tongues.
Some reasons why every believer must speak in other tongues: In Acts 1:8 when the Lord promised us the gift of the Holy Spirit, He said we shall receive power after the Holy Spirit is come upon us and this power would enable us to become witnesses for him. When the Holy Spirit came, He brought us the power to be witnesses with the manifestation of speaking in other tongues for the following reasons among others:
1.     It is the initial proof that we have been filled with the Holy Spirit. See Acts 2:4; 10:44-46 and 19:1-6.
2.     It is a sign that a person believes in the Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus promised in Mark 16:17 that certain signs would follow those that believe in Him and the first sign He mentions is that we would speak in new tongues. See Acts 2:4.
3.     It is God’s will for us because it provided the much needed intimacy with God that He has always desired to have with us. See 1Cor.14:5 and 28.
4.     Tongues is for spiritual edification. In any situation you find yourself, pray in tongues and your spirit by the Holy Spirit will rise up to the occasion to deliver divine results to you. See 1Cor.14:2 and 4, Jude 1:20 and 1Thess.5:17.
5.     Tongues keep us in constant remembrance of the Holy Spirit’s indwelling presence. This affects the way we live our lives and enables us to maintain a spiritual environment of the cool of the day like Adam first had with in the Garden. See Gen.3:8 and Jn.14:16-17. When we live fully conscious of God’s presence, we honor him and if we do so, God would honor us in return. See 1Sam.1:30 and Jn.12:26.
6.     Praying in tongues is how the Holy Spirit empowers us to pray when we do not know what we should pray for as we ought. As our helper, a major help we get from the Holy Spirit is the help we get in prayer when we do not know what we should pray for as we ought. See Rm.8:26 and 1Cor.14:14.
7.     Praying in tongues stimulates faith. It enables us to stay in the fullness of the spirit and walk in the supernatural. Eph.5:18-19 teaches us to stay full of the Holy Spirit and not be sensual. See Jude 1:20 and Philippians 3:3.
8.     Praying in tongues keeps us free from worldliness. See 1Cor.14:27-28 and 2 and 1Cor.2:11. Here you will learn the distinction between giving a message in tongues and praying in tongues. In the former case, the message would have to be interpreted by either the one who gives it or another person in the place with the gift of interpretation. See 1Cor.14:12-13.
9.     Praying in tongues is the Supernatural therapy for cleansing and release. Praying by the Holy Spirit within us empowers us for Holy living because He is Holy. God in turn energizes us to live holy for Him. Rm.8:26; 1Cor.14:14 and 1Cor.2:11-16.
10.                         Praying in tongues enables us to pray for the unknown. It provides a means of praying about issues no one thinks about or even knows. Thus praying through us for things which no one thinks about or even knows. It even has the ability to expose and destroy all the secret evil done against you by the wicked. See Rm.8:26.
11.                        Praying in tongues gives refreshing. See Isa.28:11-12.  The rest and refreshing referred to in this passage of scripture is praying in unknown tongues.
12.                        Tongues enables us to give thanks properly. Sometimes we are so grateful to God that the mere chant of thank you would be insufficient to express ourselves. This is when this gift becomes necessary in our expression of gratitude. See 1Cor.14:16-17.
13.                        Speaking in tongues helps to tame the tongue. This is a giant step towards fully yielding our body to the Holy Spirit for His use because the greatest discipline we can express is that of our tongue. When we are able to discipline our tongues, we can protect our lives thereby. See Jas.3.
14.                        This is the means by which we use our little faith to operate the great faith of God. 1Cor.14:2 and Mk.11:22-23.
We shall stop here for today; but please let me emphasize that the Holy Spirit is only given as a gift by God to the redeemed. If you are not born again yet you are not redeemed but I have good news for you; you can get born again right away by saying the following prayer out loud in faith and you will be born again. If you want to, you can take the step right away by saying the following prayer out loud in faith and you will be saved:
Heavenly Father,
Have mercy on me a sinner. Today, I believe that Jesus died for me and you raised Him from the dead for my Justification. I therefore declare that Jesus Christ is my Saviour and Lord and from today, I renounce the fatherhood of Satan and embrace Jesus Christ as my Saviour and Lord. Thank you for this father in Jesus’ name! Amen.
Congratulations! For more information and resources that would help you grow in this new life, please visit our website at www.kingdomheirsministries.org and our blogs at www.flourishinggirl.blogspot.com and follow us on twitter at alero_nanna and on face book on www.facebook.com/flourishinggirl www.facebook.com/khmii2015; www.facebook.com/thewellbeingcenter. Or www.facebook.com/kingdomjointheirsfamily email:  jointheirsfamily@gmail.com.

Satan’s weapon for trying to stop the move of the Holy Spirit


Messages for June 2018: Our Month of the Holy Spirit
Message for Wednesday 20th June, 2018
Theme: Understanding the Ministry and Gift of the Holy Spirit
Topic: Satan’s weapon for trying to stop the move of the Holy Spirit
Introduction: So far we have been learning a lot from this great theme of understanding the ministry and gift of the Holy Spirit. We have seen why the Holy Spirit came and who He is and how we can take advantage of this great blessing of God to us. However, this series would be incomplete without looking at this great topic which has a potential to waste all of our efforts to fulfil God’s plan for our lives if we do not understand and address it.
We have seen different moves of God being arrested or stopped altogether by this evil distraction of the devil. I want to call it Satan’s triplet weapon against the Church; they are slander, gossip and offense. He is able to do this if he can get carnal believers in the Church to provoke strife and if the elders do not arrest the strife in time, he could introduce envy and when strife and envy get married, their children are confusion and every evil work. When these are in place, the Holy Spirit will have to leave otherwise His continued presence there would result in incidence like the Ananias and Sapphira one in Acts 5.
Strife:  what does strife mean? Strife is defined as exertion or contention for superiority; lack of agreement or harmony; bitter conflict. From these definitions, we can see that strife is manifested in competition usually about vain glory. Anywhere you have strife, you cannot have peace because of the discord that exists there.
What the bible says about strife: 
The first account of strife in the bible was about Abraham and Lot’s herd men. This happened in a family as you would observe. Gen.13:6-8. We learn a lesson from Abraham here when he told Lot that there should be no strife between them. He instead took the high way of letting Lot win the fight by telling him to choose where he wanted to relocate to before he made his choice. As soon as Lot left God came down to speak with Abraham. See Gen.14:13-18. This was where Lot truncated his destiny. The end of Lot was the destruction of the land he chose and incest resulting in him fathering his daughters’ children. There is no future for a person holding on to strife. Abraham on the other hand immediately heard God’s voice giving him clear direction for his life again. He moved on with God and Lot lost God’s presence forever.
Strife cost Moses his place in being able to enter the Promised Land because the strife made him disobey God when he struck the rock instead of speaking to it at Meribah. See Num.27:12-14 and Ps.106:32.
There is the strife of tongues: When there is this kind of issue, we are taught in the bible to pray that God will protect us from the strife of tongues. Ps.31:20 – the reason for this is that when we speak ill of others we are killing them with our tongues. Thus anyone who has been speaking ill of others have blood in their hands just like a murderer has especially if those contents being spoken or spread are lies. As a matter of fact when the words are lies, the person speaking such things have entered willingly into the thresh hold of witchcraft. This explains what Apostle Paul was saying in Gal.5:18-20 that people who live like this have no inheritance in the Kingdom of God and Christ.
When we strive, our enemies rejoice because they laugh among themselves in mockery of us knowing that that strife has made us like them [Ps.80:6]. This is why it is honorable that we take the first step to stop the strife so that we can walk in the footsteps of our father Abraham like God tells us to do in Isa.51:1-2. See Prov.20:3. He is the only person God tells us to look up to. The other person we are to look up to is Jesus Christ [Heb.12:2]. When His disciples strove among themselves as to who souls be the greatest in the Kingdom, He gracefully told them about His servant leadership. When James and John tried to display power just like the power displayed by Elijah in calling fire down on people, He told them that that was not the manner of spirit of which they were made. In other words, even when people strive with you, do not react in strive, respond in love because the Son of man came not to destroy men’s lives, He came to seek and save that which was lost. See Lk.9:51-56 and Lk.19:10.
At the root of strife is hatred: The antidote for this kind is to walk in love because love covers all sins. See Prov.10:12 and Jn.13:34-35; 15:16-21 and 1Jn.2:9-11. How do you walk in love? 1Cor.13:4-8 tells us in the amplified bible translation. Until we bear the fruit of love, our faith in God is really questionable.
Strife is a work of the flesh and proof of an unbroken life: The problem with strife is that if it is not arrested in time, it will result in envy and where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work. In essence, strife gives Satan the legal access into people’s lives. It has the ability of wrecking families and institutions. It is a no good to any people at any level of life. See Gal.5:19-20 and 1Cor.3:3
Strife is stirred up by pride: Pride is what makes people compete with each other to outdo each other. The result is that it magnets envy into the life of those who would not let go of it and where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work. Prov.28:25; Isa.58:4 and Jas.3:13-18; 4:1-17.  
Result of strife:
1.     Spiritual blindness: Strife is a proof of hatred existing in the heart of another person. The bible teaches in 1Jn.2:10-11 that anyone who hates his brother is blind and cannot see afar off. Such a person does not even know God. Thus any hatred that resides in a person’s heart towards anyone makes that person culpable and the next thing it would result in is that the person will always strive with whoever they hate. This is however without prejudice to a person making effort to live in peace by avoiding the person stirring up strife. This is the example Abraham left us in the matter of Lot in Gen.13. Just in the previous chapter they started to take the journey together but the next chapter; as soon as Lot got some financial prosperity, he began to strive with Abraham. To avoid this, Abraham had to put Lot away and the strife ceased. See Prv.22:10 and 24:9.
2.     Attracts envy: When envy mixes with strife, confusion and every evil work is born into the situation and this is particularly dangerous especially for people handling any kind of leadership responsibility because it can create roots of bitterness that has the potential of defiling many people. Jas.3:14-16; Heb.12:14-17.
3.     It can result in the abortion of destiny: One of the evil work brought about by strife is slander and this is spread by gossip resulting in offence of the injured party. Many occasions where slander is spread, they are not true; even if there were some truths in what is said, they are distorted to suit the intent of the person from which the slander is originating and this is actually murder taking place and there are dire consequences for this. Some people never find their places in destiny as a result. See the account of Amnon, Absalom and Tamar in 2Sam.13. Amnon was the heir apparent but could not handle the issue of lust for his sister Tamar so Satan sent Jonadab his cousin to encourage the lust in the unhealthiest manner and the end was the death of Amnon, Absalom, and desolation of Tamar.   
4.     It can result in unfruitfulness: As long as one is walking in strife, the devil has access to their lives and the end is that he will get them involved in the unfruitful works of darkness and this will bring about their inability to become like Christ unless they repent sincerely and begin to walk in the word otherwise they would end up being judgmental and farther and farther away from God until the little image of Christ they had would be sunctured out of their lives and you do not want this. See the account of the tower of Babel where God frustrated rebellious man Himself in Gen.11:1-9.
5.     In extreme cases, it results in murder: This could be as a result of strife degerating to physical combats that may result in mortal injuries. Some husbands have killed their wives this way without meaning to do so. Some wives have poisoned their husbands to death without meaning to do so because of strife. In some other cases some people end up becoming suicidal like the case of Ahitophel See 2Sam.13; Prv.26:20-28.
6.     If not handled in love, it can create anger and bitterness: The only way to handle strife in love is to stop the strife, forgive, avoid the source of strife and move on.  
Solution to strife:
1.     Walk in love – Love is not easily angered so you can be patient enough to give another person a chance of being fairly heard. Fair hearing can really change a lot of things. It takes patience to hear another especially when you are offended already. See Jn.17:20-23; Jn.15:17-19; 1Cor.13:4-8 amp and Gal.5:16-22.
2.     Avoid divisive people – Apostle Paul says to mark those who cause division among us and avoid them. Rm.16:17-20; Philip.3:17-21.
3.     Do not be friends with people who strive – the bible tells us not to be deceived to think that we can still maintain our purity being friends with bad people. See 1Cor.15:33; Prv.13:20 and Ps.1:1-3
4.     Do not encourage gossip: When people bring you stories even of those who hurt you, even if you have to respond, do it with God’s perspective. This would not be easy, this is the reason you need to be prayerful. In the place of prayer, you draw strength from God called grace. Then you meditate on the word of God teaching us love. Prov.22:10 and 26:20
5.     Organize your life around God’s purpose: Follow God’s word and ways every day and you would just find out that people who bring contention would begin to avoid you. They are usually people not going anywhere. So you would be good company for them when you are not going anywhere. If they bring you any tale, call the person being slandered and let them repeat what they are accusing you of in their presence. If they refuse, tell them not to visit you again but you can still greet with them along the way but never have any relationship with them close enough for them to defile you again with their lies. See Prov.29:18
6.     Avoid slanderers: The reason is that tale bearers can separate chief friends and friendship that is productive is of God. Check the people you call your friends; to what extent are they encouraging you to be productive. Also check yourself; to what extent are you making others around you to be productive?
7.     Become a disciple of Jesus Christ: Only disciples can bear the fruit of the spirit because until a corn of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it abides alone. When you learn to live the crucified life, you will bear much fruit and glorify God thereby. The demands of discipleship is spelt out by the Lord in Lk.9:23-26 and Jn.12:24-26.
We shall draw the curtain here for today. The conclusion of this message is that we become genuine followers of the Lord Jesus Christ. To become a true follower we have to start with the new birth and then a commitment to discipleship to become more like Jesus Christ by the day. You can start the journey by saying the following prayer out loud in faith and the Holy Spirit will come to help you:
Heavenly Father,
Have mercy on me a sinner. Today, I believe that Jesus died for me and you raised Him from the dead for my Justification. I therefore declare that Jesus Christ is my Saviour and Lord and from today, I renounce the fatherhood of Satan and embrace Jesus Christ as my Saviour and Lord. Thank you for this father in Jesus’ name! Amen.
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